From Stigma to Support: Leisure As a Source of Resilience in Sex Work

This paper explores the often-overlooked dimensions of leisure within the lives of sex workers, highlighting their humanity beyond the stereotypes of mechanistic labour. Through in-depth interviews with 10 flying sex workers living in the capital of the Indian subcontinent- the city of Delhi, we reveal how moments of leisure—sharing meals, enjoying cold drinks, and engaging in everyday activities—serve as vital pathways to joy, resilience, and community. Participants describe how these shared experiences provide relief from societal judgment, fostering a sense of normalcy and belonging, while also facilitating intimate conversations about love, relationships, and life lessons.

These discussions offer insight into the emotional landscapes of sex workers where laughter and reflection weave through moments of vulnerability. Leisure time becomes a space for connection, where stories of partners and lovers emerge, enriching their social fabric and informing their collective resilience. Moreover, these narratives intertwine with vital health conversations, including HIV prevention, underscoring the importance of support networks in navigating both personal and professional challenges.

By framing leisure as a crucial aspect of their lives, this research challenges conventional narratives that reduce sex work to mere economic transactions. Instead, it reveals a tapestry of experiences rich in intimacy, joy, and companionship. As we reconsider the policies surrounding sex work, it becomes clear that recognizing these dimensions of leisure can transform our understanding, advocating for a future where sex workers are seen not just as labourers but as complex individuals, deserving of dignity and respect in all aspects of their lives.